Write Your Erotic Handbook

Talking what you want in bed is hard. In fact, it's one of THE most common complaints I hear. There are many reasons for that:

• The things that feel “sexy” might feel ephemeral or mysterious.
• The experience of desire, yearning or fantasy happens in the body or the mind's eye, without words attached.
• You may have an inkling of what makes you hot, hard or wet, but talking about it might feel impossible.
• No one ever taught you that there are names for the things you want (or for a lot of things in sex, for that matter!)

If you ever have a hard time knowing what you want in your sex life — or talking about it — the Write Your Erotic Handbook course is for you!

An Erotic Handbook is not a dating profile or personal ad. Instead, it’s a personalized discovery process that is all about YOU.

From how you like to be touched, to what kinds of things make you feel loved, to your personal pleasure profile and the treasure map to your core erotic themes, we’ll dig into what makes you tick, what makes you hot and what gets you going.

In this 4-week course, you’ll travel through your wildest fantasies, wander among the five senses, and explore what makes you feel cherished and beloved. You’ll get quizzes, writing prompts, and checklists. You’ll tap into what feels good to all of you. Interspersed throughout will be simple games to wake up your body and free your imagination.

You'll learn language, frameworks and practices that help make your deep desires available and accessible.

Then you’ll write it all down so you can make it happen.

Regardless of how much or how little experience you have, your body has wisdom it can be hard to put into words.

That’s why we are doing this together.

Throughout the course, you’ll learn tips on how to notice, value and trust your interests, appetites and longings. We’ll talk about how to use your Erotic Handbook and make sure the wording is focused on YOUR desires (rather than masking, hiding or smuggling them). We will also cover some additional topics you may want to include if you are kinky or non-monogamous.

(There might even be a playlist or two!)

Whether you create your handbook just for yourself or ultimately share it with another(s), this workshop is an exploration of sexual self-discovery unlike any other!