Write Your Erotic Handbook

April 13-May 4

Talking what you want in bed is hard. In fact, it's one of THE most common complaints I hear. There are many reasons for that:

  • The things that feel “sexy” might feel ephemeral or mysterious.
  • The experience of desire, yearning or fantasy happens in the body or the mind's eye, without words attached.
  • You may have an inkling of what makes you hot, hard or wet, but talking about it might feel impossible.
  • No one ever taught you that there are names for the things you want (or for a lot of things in sex, for that matter!)

If you ever have a hard time knowing what you want in your sex life — or talking about it — the Write Your Erotic Handbook course is for you!

An Erotic Handbook is not a dating profile or personal ad. Instead, it’s a personalized discovery process that is all about YOU.

From how you like to be touched, to what kinds of things make you feel loved, to your personal pleasure profile and the treasure map to your core erotic themes, we’ll dig into what makes you tick, what makes you hot and what gets you going.

In this 4-week course, you’ll travel through your wildest fantasies, wander among the five senses, and explore what makes you feel cherished and beloved. You’ll get quizzes, writing prompts, and checklists. You’ll tap into what feels good to all of you. Interspersed throughout will be simple games to wake up your body and free your imagination.

You'll learn language, frameworks and practices that help make your deep desires available and accessible.

Then you’ll write it all down so you can make it happen.

Regardless of how much or how little experience you have, your body has wisdom it can be hard to put into words.

That’s why we are doing this together.

Throughout the course, you’ll learn tips on how to notice, value and trust your interests, appetites and longings. We’ll talk about how to use your Erotic Handbook and make sure the wording is focused on YOUR desires (rather than masking, hiding or smuggling them). We will also cover some additional topics you may want to include if you are kinky or non-monogamous.

(There might even be a playlist or two!)

Whether you create your handbook just for yourself or ultimately share it with another(s), this workshop is an exploration of sexual self-discovery unlike any other!


Your Instructor


Marcia Baczynski
Marcia Baczynski

Marcia is an internationally-recognized speaker, writer, coach and expert on sexual communication, relationships and women’s empowerment. Her primary mission is to help women and the people who love them to overcome shame and get in touch with what they truly want – romantically, sexually and relationally – even if it’s off the beaten path.


Course Curriculum


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Frequently Asked Questions


When does the course start and finish?
Four Wednesdays from 6-8pm PT / 8:30-10:30 ET Each class will meet on Zoom and will be recorded.
How long do I have access to the course?
Your access lasts for 120 days after the course ends - across any and all devices you own!
Where does the class meet?
We meet on Zoom! You will get the link a few days before the first class. Each class will be recorded and uploaded to Teachable.
I'm a private person. Do I have to share my personal information in class?
The work we are doing together is really about self-reflection. While there will be plenty of opportunities to share insights and talk about discoveries during our meetings, it's all on your own terms. You do not have to share anything at all for all four weeks if you don't want to! You can ask questions anonymously, and participation is entirely optional. (You can even attend anonymously if that is a concern for you.)
What is the refund policy?
There are no refunds on this course. All Zoom calls are recorded and will be posted within 48 hours for you to watch on your own in case you have to miss a meeting. Please be sure you wish to purchase before doing so!

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