Bedroom Communication for Everyone

practical tools to super-charge your sex life


Ha. Yeah right. YOU’RE ADORABLE.

That’s freaking HARD.

The challenge of asking for what you want starts inside: knowing what you want, feeling safe enough to ask for it, and then literally knowing the words to use that accurately describe what you want.

Then, you have to get it across to your partner without hurting anyone’s feelings or missing the point.

And what if something isn’t working for you and you need to talk about that?

“Just communicate” indeed.

If you don’t know what you’re doing, that sounds like a recipe for disaster. Better just stay quiet, right?

Well, no, because that pretty much guarantees you won’t get what you want. Wishing and hoping won’t make it so. Neither will mind-reading. (You’ve probably already tried that anyway.)


Bedroom communication skills.

Fortunately, I got you covered.

Over the 17+ years I’ve been a sex educator and relationship coach, I’ve heard from thousands of people about what keeps them from asking for what they want in the bedroom, and helped adults with all kinds of sexual interests figure out their desires and how to talk about them.

Now, I’ve put it all together into a 3-hour workshop for you, distilling the most relevant and practical tools for you to ask for — and get — what you really want in bed.

In this LIVE online workshop, you’ll learn practical, immediately-useful skills to uncover what really turns you (and your partner) on and talk about it, so that you’re WAY more likely to get it.

The class is fun, and the homework is sexy.

Here's what you'll learn:

  • Why we don't ask, and what we do instead
  • One thing that ALWAYS tells you when somebody wants something (even when they can't ask for it)
  • How to notice, trust and value your desires
  • Concrete tools to open up dialog with your partner(s) about what you both like and want
  • Giving feedback in productive and sexy ways
  • Why "Is this Okay?" is the LAST question you want to ask
  • How to communicate what you want, without having to talk about (all of) it
  • What to do about the sometimes-challenging emotions that come up around sex and desire

But wait, there's more! 😉

When you sign up, you'll get access to a WHOLE bunch more stuff. Here's what else is included:

  • Expanded Sexual Menu checklist to inspire new sexual adventures
  • Over a dozen scripts for getting and giving feedback, asking for what you want in bed and finding out more about what your partner wants
  • Two simple but sexy and profound games to play with your partner that will open up a whole new world of clarity between you
  • A giant list of resources for you to take your sexplorations further
  • Writing prompts, conversation starters and titillating tactics for getting your personal party started

Registration is good for one person, however, when you sign up, you'll get an access code for 30% off that you can send to your partner, friend or pal. Sexy, platonic or otherwise!

This class WILL be recorded, with options for anonymity given in advance.

Register now!

Your Instructor

Marcia Baczynski
Marcia Baczynski

Marcia Baczynski, aka Marcia B, (she/her) is an internationally-recognized coach, writer and presenter on sexual communication, boundaries, consent and desire. Her primary mission is to help adults who want more connection and intimacy to overcome shame and get in touch with what they truly want – romantically, sexually and relationally – even if it’s off the beaten path.

She is the co-author of Creating Consent Culture: A Handbook for Educators which can be purchased at most major booksellers.

Marcia brings wisdom, humor, and creativity to all aspects of her work, and offers a fresh perspective on love, sex and relationships. With expertise in boundaries, communication, open relationships, LGBTQ+ experiences and sex positivity, she helps her clients chart an authentic path for themselves. Since 2003, she has helped tens of thousands of people through her private coaching, workshops and group programs.

Frequently Asked Questions

How long do I have access to the course?
How does lifetime access sound? After enrolling, you have unlimited access to this course for as long as you like - across any and all devices you own.
Can my partner / friend / pal take this class with me?
Admission is for one person only, however, once you register, you'll get access to a 30% off code that you can share with whoever you want!
How old do I have to be to join?
Over 18 only please.
Do I have to be in a relationship to participate?
Not at all! This is for anyone who wants to learn how to better ask for what they want in bed, whether that’s in a long-term relationship, a one-night stand, or anything in between.
I’m queer / non-monogamous / into kinky stuff. Is this for me?
Absolutely! Marcia’s programs are radically inclusive of a variety of sexual orientations, genders, sexual practices and interests. She uses examples from across the sexual and gender spectrum, and rejects the idea that there is any one correct way to have sex.
I AM straight, monogamous and NOT into kinky stuff. Is this for me?
Of course! Marcia will use a wide range of examples from across the sexual and gender spectrum, and she encourages you to use the tools provided for your particular situation. Whether your sexuality is mainstream, far outside the box or somewhere in the middle, you will find practical tools to make your sexual communication sparkle.
Do I have to be sexually experienced to participate?
We assume that you either have a sex partner already or will in the near future. But other than that, no, you don’t have to have much sexual experience. If you’ve just gotten out of a relationship, if you are just starting to explore your sexuality, or if you are finding yourself in a new sexual situations that you want to learn how to handle more gracefully, this is the program for you.

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